I’m friends with the woman they despise


DEAR HARRIETTE: I get along well with a woman who has hurt a lot of my friends in the past.

Harriette Cole
Harriette Cole 

Although it happened decades ago, my friends made a common enemy out of her and haven’t let it go since. I believe that it’s time for them to move on.

I have kept my friendship with this woman a secret to spare my friends’ feelings, but the longer I hide it, the worse it will be when they find out.

How do I tell my other friends that I am now friendly with the woman they all despise?

New Friend

DEAR NEW FRIEND: Have you talked to your new friend about her past? Why not start there?

Tell her that you care about her and you find yourself in a bind because of her history with your other close friends. Ask her to tell you her version of what happened between them years ago. Find out what she recalls and how she thinks about the situation today.


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