Grandmother interferes with our rules for our child


Dear Amy: I am a husband and father of an 18-month-old daughter. I’m concerned about how my mother-in-law treats my wife and daughter.

Grandmother interferes with our rules for our child
Amy Dickinson 

She calls my wife multiple times a day to FaceTime with her granddaughter. My wife answers as often as she can.

The problem I have is that my mother-in-law keeps saying things to our toddler like: “Don’t worry, whenever Grandma is talking to you, you don’t have to listen to your mom.”

Or when my wife tells my daughter to stop doing something, her mother will say, “Grandma says it’s OK.”

The last time I heard this I wanted to grab the phone and say: “Mom makes the rules. If you can’t follow them, you can’t see our daughter” and hang up on her.


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